I can help both of you to become aware of what the difficulties are and how to express them to each other in a clear, productive, non-hostile way. I will encourage you to talk to each other about your families of origin and thus gain understanding of deep seated differences you both carry from childhood.
I will remind both of you that sex is a natural, normal, good, wonderful dimension of your lives together. Sex is another expression of your connection and love for each other; another way to make each other feel good wanted and loved.
I understand that divorce is an earthquake, a tornado, a tsunami- all happening at once. Divorce devastates and shatters the dreams of a life together and marks the end of the love and care both partners felt in the past.
I can help you – both in a group setting or individually in my office- to talk about the unique and sometimes difficult circumstances of your lives together: Both of you may be confronted with feelings of loss, guilt, betrayal and confusion.